Anonymous asked: How do you know when you’re in love?
cornerof5thandvermouth:
cakemeister:
cornerof5thandvermouth:
cakemeister:
when you want to be a better person for someone else. when you want to make sure theyre happy and safe at all times. when you would do anything for them. when your heart feels full whenever you think of them. when you feel complete in their presence. when you understand that your relationship needs to be balanced, in regards to power and emotion. when you can carry your own weight and know your partner can carry theirs. when you can have a conversation without opening your mouths. when you cant live without them. when they know you better than you know yourself. when no one else makes you happier. when you can see yourselves growing old together.
is it weird that i feel this way about like over 50 internet people all at once
yes
no not at all. even if it crosses the line from deep platonic love to romantic love, aint nothin wrong with being polyamorous
idk i wouldn’t call it a romantic love but it’s deep and abiding and mega awkward
ahh hmm well, awkward how? idk ive had really deep friendships with people where we might as well have been dating but we werent sexually attracted to each other but like. wed stay up all night talking and cuddling and being stupid with each other. or is it like you feel really deeply for them and youre not sure if they feel the same way for you? in that case talking is good, but if youre too nervous to do that, i totally understand and unfortunately i havent overcome that hurdle myself yet either. but talking is always good. sometimes the more you talk, the deeper your relationship will get, and then youll be mutually deep in platonic love before you know it.